Interesting Video I came Across

I came across this video today when watching a few from one of my favorite sites, XHamster.

Please go ahead and click the picture to take you to the video where you can watch it in full screen.

This video pretty closely fits things I would like to do with Sam...or should I say to Sam. Although my laugh wouldn't be like hers, and I would be doing a hell of a lot more verbal teasing and tormenting of him, but it gives some sort of idea. I am sadistic, but not to the point of being down right hard core violent. I don't have desires to punch his balls or kick them, or things like that, but I want to squeeze them and spank them and so forth.

Also I can't wait to use his mouth and tongue for my pleasure. That is what it exists for...it is another part of his body I own, and it has no right to deny me pleasure if I choose to take it. Whenever I choose to take it. Sam's mouth was the hardest body area for him to surrender to me...he was very stubborn about it. It took quite a long time even after he knew how much I wanted it, for him to beg me to take it. See...that is how I operate. Yes I love to have control of him, and yes, sometimes I want something for myself faster than he wants it, but when it comes to the initial surrendering of control of an area of his body, or a certain theme of something, it has to come from him. I won't control if I don't believe it is consensual, so I wait until he is ready to surrender it, and I make him ask me for it and beg me for it. Not so much begging in the sense that he made me wait so now I will torture him with begging, but more asking in such a way that really truly convinces me he wants it.

So you can imagine how pleased and proud I was when after being stubborn and hesitant for quite some time, he finally asked me and pleaded with me to take control of his mouth and turn it into just a hole or toy that I own, and to use it how I wish. It took a lot for him to give that to me, and I love him for it. I am happy to have waited because when he finally was ready, he really wanted me to have it. So you see now I have no reason to wonder what he would feel about licking pussy, ass, eating cum, sucking dildos for me, being gagged etc...because that mouth belongs to me and is mine to use when I wish. Now of course I also love Sam very much and care about him, so if he is feeling nauseated I wouldn't be so sadistic as to make him be gagged for me or sucking dildos...that would not be very compassionate...and above him being my submissive he is the man that I love very much. So I would rather take my pleasure from his mouth on a day when was more able to give it....and then, I will take it how I want it, for as long as I want it.

Anyway I got side tracked here.

What I love about this video:

I love how he is restrained. We have used siran wrap before. It is a very tight bondage.

Also I love this furniture she has devised. I love how he is positioned in that chair so she sits above him and he cannot move his head at all, and yet there is no risk of her crushing him. He is just there, mouth in place, ready to please her whenever she mounts his mouth. I find that fucking hot. I have told Sam that when we are together in person we are going to have a pussy worship bell. Whenever I ring that bell whatever he happens to be doing, he has to stop and come to me, and please my pussy...whether I want it fucked, kissed, licked, sucked, or whatever I desire. I could ring the bell 25 times in one day and I would expect him to happily serve me. I have told him that before we are together, sometime soon I am going to start a pussy worship bell which would have to be in the form of an email thread, and where I ring it, he would have to do or say something that is sure to really make my pussy wet and tingly...I think that will work just nicely until we can use a real bell.

I love how she just sits there taking pleasure from him while using his cock and balls for her own fun. I love how he is just there to serve her, and has to way to get away...can barely only move his fingers and toes.

I love how she squeezes those balls and spanks them...not so violently, but just enough to hurt and show him who is boss. And to have her own fun.

I love how she jerks him off and lets him cum...almost a ruined one because she isn't really giving him very much stimulation at all as he cums, but still enough to be a frustrating real orgasm.

I love seeing that cum go shooting out like that, very big turn on for me.

I love that she made him cum before the real fun was to start, that is wickedly evil and that is the type of evil I am. She made him cum and now for the second type of torture, he won't even be sure to get any pleasure from it...not the same as it would be if he were still horny during it.

And I have to say I am very turned on by that device she uses, how it crushes him a bit, and how it will shock him. Perfectly evil and a huge turn on.

And then of course I love how she mounts his face again and tells him that she won't turn it off till she has cum a second time. I don't know about most women, but my second orgasm takes a little more effort than a first one does, so I know that if it were me, he would be suffering a little while like that :).

So you can see, this is my style and I could see this sort of scene happening very easily between Sam and me. I know Sam fears and doesn't like devices that would give that sort of crushing pressure, but it could be used with less pressure that she gave to him....I wouldn't have to tighten those screws so much as she did.

I hope you take the time to watch the video...I found it very arousing.

Maybe this helps to show more of my style of dominating, at least until we can start showing our own videos here.

Oh recently I informed Sam that I am now controlling his porn too. He can't watch it without my permission and he only is allowed to watch types I tell him, unless I give him some free porn time, then he can watch what he wants.

And Sam....

I will expect you to watch this video clip and really picture yourself being him...picture how you are going to feel when this is me...and yet picture the ways I tease and torment you verbally, while all this would happen...and I want you to edge for me 6 times before the video ends. You will get to an edge, stop and wait 30 seconds, then get it the next one, and keep that pattern going. There is enough time to make this happen. And if you don't get all 6 edges for me before this video ends, you are going to pay dearly for each you did not reach. Enjoy your task my slut, and you had better not cum.